Plan ahead

If possible, talk to the person with dementia about preferences for living arrangements while he or she can still make reasonable choices.

When planning the move, be honest with the person and provide as much information as is appropriate. You might consider allowing the person to make some choices in the process. If the person becomes angry or resistant, ask other caregivers, family members and the person's health care provider for help explaining the importance of the move.

If the person with dementia will be moving into your home, discuss with other family members how you will all handle the expenses as well as the time commitment. Be prepared to make changes to your routine to provide care and bring the person to medical appointments. It's also important to think about how to make your home safe for the person with dementia.

If the person with dementia will be moving to a care facility, speak with the staff about the person's background, hobbies, interests and any special needs. Provide the person's medical and mental health history, including a detailed medication list.